Well it came to me when read IRC’s post about experience relation with time, i thought why we just relate things with time that much.
we don’t call a friend a close one without the tag of ” i know him for so long “, we get scare when see a young doctor just trying to examine us and so on
Sometimes i do that too but in friendship issues i used to ignore that time factor, maybe in love too, here it’s not about time it’s just about harmony
Once i had a friend for just 4 days well they have been really continuous 4 days but still 4 days !!! i was down and i rarely be so,, but when i feel so, i don’t allow people to see me but my closest, i’ve just allowed her , i was wondering myself why i did so she’s just a new friend if we took it from that angle .. but now after 6 years together i knew i was blessed when forgot about that time thing -- in a hundred other issue- i just search for the harmony between me and others .
It worked in many things when i’ve a hunch, i just follow it.. not a naive one i mean when feel the harmony i just take off my watch